How to Have Anal Sex? 9 Tips for a Safe, Exciting and Unforgettable Experience

Anal sex is no longer a taboo. More and more couples are discovering how intimate and pleasurable it can be. But starting isn’t always easy. Does it hurt? How do you prepare for anal sex? And what to do if it’s your very first time?

In this article, you’ll find practical guidance, tips, advice and real experiences that will help you enjoy anal sex safely, pleasantly and with confidence.

1. Is anal sex for everyone? Yes – if you know how to do it right

Anal sex can be very intense and pleasurable — but only if you know how to approach it safely and correctly.

It’s suitable for:

• beginners wanting to try their first anal sex experience
• experienced couples looking for new excitement
• BDSM lovers (e.g., bdsm anal)
• men, women and couples of all orientations

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2. Preparation for anal sex: the foundation of success

The success of your first or any anal experience lies in preparation. Without it, it can hurt. With it, it can be divine.

What to do before the act:

• Time and calm — no rushing.
• Hygiene — a shower is enough; no need for clism mania.
• Lubricant — silicone or gel-based. Anal sex without lube doesn’t work.
• Relaxation — mental comfort is key.

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3. First anal: how to make it a great experience

Your first anal sex should be slow, gentle and controlled by the receiving partner.

How to approach your very first anal sex:

• start with fingers or a small anal toy
• communicate
• take it slow
• use plenty of gel
• breathe and relax your muscles

Never attempt a “fast entry.” Your butt won’t appreciate it.

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4. What you should know beforehand (psychology is half the success)

• The butt is a muscle — it must relax.
• Fear = tension = pain.
• Arousal = relaxation = pleasure.

Anal sex is not only physical but also a psychological game.

5. Which positions are best for anal sex?

For beginners, we recommend:

1. Spooning — gentle control over pace.
2. On the side with legs bent — very comfortable for first-timers.
3. On the stomach — relaxed pelvis, easy entry.

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6. BDSM anal: when you want a rougher play

• always agree on boundaries
• use a safe word
• spanking (“bare ass”) can be part of the preparation
• silicone lubricant is essential

TIP:BDSM anal is not suitable as a first anal experience. Start gently.

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7. The most common mistakes during anal sex

• no lubricant = bad
• fast penetration = very bad
• no communication = disaster
• wrong position = pain

8. How to enjoy anal sex to the fullest?

• relax
• foreplay helps (a lot!)
• first fingers, then penis
• you set the pace
• your partner must follow your lead

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9. Conclusion: How to have anal sex? Slowly, gently and with respect

Anal sex can be one of the most intense sexual experiences. All it takes is proper preparation, communication and a desire to explore.

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